A few weeks ago I had an incident in my dorm with a psycho girl who falsely accused me of rape after I broke up with her. She called the police, and they are still investigating. They gave us both strict orders not to talk about it with ANYONE and not to contact each other. I have honored these orders, yet she has called me, facebook messaged me, her family has harassed me, and she is now telling everyone in my dorm that I raped her. So now nobody in this college talks to me anymore now and they all think I'm a rapist. I lost my job over this (they can't employ someone with this kind of investigation going on I guess), and my life is turning upside down. The police ruled that there was no sign of rape and that there was in fact evidence to support the claim that she made the whole thing up (I gave the police an angry voicemail she left me, demanding that I open my door or she was going to make my life a "living hell" and that we were going to see "who's going to win" ).
I finally got someone to agree to testify that she has been spreading these lies about me all over school, and I'm about to call the police. Can I press charges? What can I do? Everyone just assumes that since she's a woman she's telling the truth, but she's NOT. I never did this awful thing and yet its destroying my life.