Parents are the contributor to this chaos. Not only that, movies however, cause more influence than other factors combined. We as a whole community do nothing to enforce the ESRB ratings on TV films. Whereas enforcements on other countries like USA, Canada, etc etc are more rigid therefore having more controlled society. Since no one follows the ratings
even small kids watch movies like "Dhoom2" and "shootout at lokhandwala" i heard a 10 year old sing the "ganpat" song with all his friends. And a 12 year old collecting photos from the newspaper of "respectable ladies" (irony) wearing "compromising outfits". When India Today always featured this photos, who knew they would be at school libraries where
the boys would pretend to read, whereas admiring the graphic photos.
Anyways based on my knowledge and experience, i would like to share my views on how to resolve this horrible events. Although the problem is not immediately resolved, it can obviously, if rigidly followed will create optimal results within a span of a generation. Here are the points:
1.Media:
i> restriction of compromising photos from common magazines to only magazines for adults.
ii> Carefully rating films and strict adherence to it.(the tickets to not be available for youngsters.)
iii> Channels screening the "above rated" movies to be screened only in late-night shows.
iv> Channels should display the PG symbol or somehow warn
the Parents "if they are watching family shows together" through message should there be any circumstances to screen "such images" where they were to create an impact and influence the "young minds".
v> Utilization of software programs, which restrict children accessing "above rating" or "above 18 years of age" websites.
vi> Looking carefully at what he or she bought. (movie discs, magazines,etc)
vii> Restricting the TV channels viewed, by blocking it by the TV utility(if it offers).
this are some among the few,
General Behaviour:
i> promoting good behaviour, more than good academic score.
ii> take measures to stop children from doing bad stuff, by mentioning to their parents or by self. And also asking why he or she is doing such an action rather than thrashing the life away of their small structure.
iii> Respecting his or her's space to a limit, providing funds at only right places.
iv> Encouraging them to state their reason, why he or she is has done or doing such thing.
v> Providing support to emotion laden situations.(very effective) If not done, they lose confidence in their parents and become sober or find other means of "easing the pain".
vi> Open-minded rather than closed, narrow-minded thinking.
vii> teachers taking personality courses to enhance communications with every student and to avoid the "teacher's pet" situation, rather than supporting only the brainy student(in many situations, the "brainy student" actually gets away with his misbehaviour. Whereas the other's suffer or invariantly blamed")
OK then most of all, it is us citizens to voice their opinions at the last scenario, because we as a whole will come to an agreement which benefits whole as producing refined, polished gentlemen and ladies, than brutish and insolent beasts.