is this considered stalking?

Question

there's this really strange ugly fat girl that like me
the weird part is i've been making fun of her since 6th grade
and she's been likeing me on and off since then and it's so gross
it's not just cuz he's ugly but she's so weird my sister hears her constanly talk about me and how i make fun of her because she thinks i like her.
but i thought isn't that what kindergarden kids do. and i can handel my emotions better than that.
and i was really mean to her until a couple of weeks before school ended because some kids threw papers at her on the bus and some how i got blamed. so the next day i was sent down to the dean's office and he let me off with a warning and he said just don't let it happen again brcause i could get sued for harrassment. so in fear of getting an inhouse suspention i just ignored her. then a couple weeks later she apologized for the whole thing so i said whatever it's cool.

Answer 1

the story got a bit too long for me to read on...my guess is, if you have that much to say about some fat girl that's been stalking you...my real guess is you're liking it.

Answer 2

so first off before I even answer the question I have to say to some of these people. YES there are deans in high school, when the school is large enough one principal cannot be resposible for all of the discipline, those people probably attended some 250 student school or something.



OK now off to the question. Internet harassing is actually being worked into law right now, but so far its not illegal. The best bet I have for you is to talk to her, but not in a you're ugly I don't like you way. If she likes you let her know that it turns you off that she researches you to find all the information about you. Just go ahead and give her some AIM screenname or something, then simply block her from messaging you. That way everybody wins.



If that doesn't work just go ahead and talk to your parents and have them try to resolve the situation.

Answer 3

Maybe you should try to talk to the girl maybe she is reading this all wrong and if you talk to and expalin things in a nice way she would most likely stop! I'm pretty sure she is just looking for a friend in all of this and it wont help if your mean to her also. Maybe you could help her make some friends and then she won't be your problem anymore :)

Answer 4

Have you tried talking to your parents about what's going on?



My best advice to you is to talk to them.



I don't know how old you guys are but I'm assuming that you're probably still in junior high and if that's the case, you're going to have to just keep ignoring her because that's an akward phase in your life...she'll get over it and eventually she'll find a new guy to crush on.

Answer 5

Hello.

I vvovld svggest that yov become friends vvith her then hook her vp vvith someone she vvovld like. That vvay she's off yovr back and yov'd do it in a good vvay.



Hope that helps. Take care.













Matthevv 5:43 Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thov shalt love thy neighbovr, and hate thine enemy.

44 Bvt I say vnto yov, Love yovr enemies, bless them that cvrse yov, do good to them that hate yov, and pray for them vvhich spitefvlly vse yov, and persecvte yov;

45 That ye may be the children of yovr Father vvhich is in heaven: for he maketh his svn to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the ivst [just] and on the vnivst.

46 For if ye love them vvhich love yov, vvhat revvard have ye? do not even the pvblicans the same?

Answer 6

To be honest, it sounds like this is all in your mind - a fantasy stalker. If you ever get a real one, you'll know the difference.



It's not stalking until she keeps showing up at places you are. And I don't mean school - places she has no right to be - like standing beside your bed when you wake up.

Answer 7

No its not stalking and try growing up a little if you are still treating this person the same as you did in kindergarten.

Answer 8

be a real gentleman and treat her like a friend. just because she's fat and ugly doesn't means that she's an evil person. more people will admire you if they saw that you treat every one as equal regarding of their looks. you don't have to kiss or hold her hands, just be a friend is enought.

Answer 9

Oh, stop. "dean's office" gave you away - in grade/high school it would be "Principal's office". Cute, very cute.

Answer 10

She is probably reading this.

Answer 11

lol... uh can i say wow???



not really considered stalking