A wrong rape allegation imposed by a 21 yr old girl to me 27 yr old. Need urgent help please!?

Question

I met this girl thru criagslist actually she responded to my post and initiated by texting me. She responded to my post and we finally met. I know her from the last 4 days and she's a unambitious girl living with friends periodically. I took her to PF-Chang's restaurant and then we hung out and then I met her the next day and we come home and had consentive sex. The next morning I wake up and she's gone. The next thing I know is that cops banging at my door saying the girl filed a case against me saying I raped her while I didn't. We both agreed to it and did it and she enjoyed it. She give descriptions to the cops about my bedroom which didn't match at all, while cops were here they saw my room and didn't find any thing she described. And she said she left bruises on my body while she was protecting herself from me and I have none I mean no bruise or injury whatsoever and the cops saw that and they were laughing that this girl is wasting their time. Now guyz this thing happened to me 4 the first time that cops are banging my door and I'm a suspect of a crime like this. I'm very scared I just need your help. Now just today the second day after she accused me I have recieved kind of threatening message on FB from her friend and when I got home earlier this morning from work I recieved a call saying that this guy who called me is a private law enforcement agent and a ex-marine asking if I raped this girl and if I ever lay my hands on her he will deal with me and that my life is done and that my greencard expired in 2007 and I'm living in US illegally (which ain't true), and as I raised my voice over this guy he was confused and didn't knew what to say or to do and said in a mumbling voice that he will see me and knows where I love and what I do and I need to be careful with his friend this girl. Guyz I didn't do it. Tell me what shall I do to get myself out of this. It's a wrong allegation. I need your help plzzz.

Answer 1

Take the message to the local police, there is no such thing as a private law enforcement agent and his threats can make him a private citizen sitting in a jail cell, false accusations are rampant in society today but if you were not arrested by the police you have nothing to worry about, They are probably preparing to try to extort money from you so go to the police right away and do not respond to them in anyway.

Answer 2

Wow I don't even know where to start on this one. I don't want to sound like your parents but I am a parent and I was 14 once also. 5 years is a big difference in age when you are in your teenage years. There are many things on a 19 year old boy/mans mind that you may not be mentally ready for. I know cause I thought I was. I don't know this young man so I don't want to judge but from experience most 19 year olds have one thing on the brain so yes he may be using you. How would your brother react? I'm sure he knows what kind of guy he is. Plus kinda sells drugs definitely a no no.Think ahead 15 years and ask yourself the same question if it was concerning your daughter or a friend. I believe you know the right thing to do or you wouldn't be asking others. I hope you make the right decision and I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 3

There is no rape if the sex was consented too. I the circumstance no right thinking prosecutor will want to prosecute this case. Regards the harassment aspect, you have to report that to the police.

Say that you met this girl and she consented to sex at your place and that this has occurred several times. She then brought trumped up rape charges against you which the police are not buying, and having failed with the charges, she is now getting some thug to harass you about it.

Even if the police were considering you as a serious suspect, there is no justification in anyone threatening you.

Answer 4

I am not an attorney but you can block them on FB and if it goes further you can always get a restraining order. ALWAYS contact an attorney with a case like this just in case you need help, and it is your word against hers but you can always request a polygraph be done on you and her.



This is why I hate women, some of them do not realize that it is reasons like this that a person who is raped have a hard time proving it.



I think playing this out at this time after the threat is not a good idea yes keep all emails and such, but still get a hold of someone to help you especially if you have never had dealings with American law before. sometimes things get weird.



by the way craigslist for romance NOT a good idea, I know people (not my friends) who brag about scamming people like that one guy even prostitutes himself out, so yeah not a good idea at all.

Answer 5

It seems like they have ganged up to extort money from guys like you. You could not have known her fully in just 4 days. She was just lying to you, and you trusted her. Anyway, don't worry, that was only an idle threat from that ex-marine as claimed by him. Anyway, don't take any chances. Report the matter to the Police and keep them informed if there are any developments. Anyway, why should it bug you when the Police have not booked anything against you. Just make sure you don't have anything to do with the girl anymore and always make sure you move about in a group when you go out. These are only precautionary measures. Involving the Police and keeping them informed, will make them stay away from you. Take care.

Answer 6

Well, it seems the cops didn't buy her story so legally you're probably ok. Now if she's telling other people and having them harass you then she could be guilty of a crime. Talk to a lawyer. You may be able to sue her for defamation of character.



As for people threatening you, saying they know where you live. If you can't reason with them, just tell them you are a member of the NRA and that you keep a handgun within reach at all times. That might get them to think twice with the threats.

Answer 7

You don't need bruises to have been rapped. Was there a rap kit performed? I wouldn't be nervous if you know you didn't commit a crime. You have to handle this in a court of law and the judge or a jury will decide.



Tape recordings are inadmissible in court. Unless the person gives permission to be recorded or the phones were tapped legally, recording without consent it illegal

Answer 8

yo get the police report if any return the favor of allegation by going to radio shack and buying a recorder to put your phone on the list of to do things record all of your conversations to be legal you have to tell the other person that they are being recorded or your phone is being recorded to insure your but i can't believe this happened thing take photos of the caller id if you have it take photos of all materials that you have as possession i.e. your computer chats, their threats, response's,etc...



CALL AN ATTORNEYS OFFICE AND ASK QUESTIONS AND OH YEAH THE NATIONAL CRIME PREVENTION CENTER BULLIES CAN BE AND WITH HELP WILL BE STOPPED

Answer 9

Yes, play it out, but make recordings of all conversations! Your biggest mistake was to pick this girl up on Craigslist!!! From you story, this girl and her friends are trying to scam you! I will BET, if you offered them money to keep quiet about you being an illegal alien etc etc, and the rest of the crap, they would shut to hell up!!! Sounds to me, she see nothing but a prostitute and her friends are the pimps! She doesn't have to supply the room - you do AND she gets a free meal out of it! Record anymore telephone calls you get from these guys, and see how they react when you tell them you are turning the tapes into the police!!!

Answer 10

save all of the FB messages and threats. it is proof that you are being harassed. you were not arrested which suggests that the police believe you.

it is up to her to prove this and if it did not happen she will not be able to. you may wish to get a restraining order against her in the mean time.

Answer 11

That's why... I only have sex with people I know... well.



I also always use a CONDOM... so she carries off no evidence...



And enjoying the moment later - isn't the only reason I run and record a NANNY-CAM.



Presuming you're telling the truth... I'm assuming that she had second thoughts... and it trying to cover herself by making this YOUR issue.



The good news is... if this isn't her first time... she may have done this with others... seek them out if you can.



Craigs List? Really?

Answer 12

well firstly i don't know how facebook works but if you can block this friend of hers do it but DO NOT delete the comments or messages she left (that's evidence), if the threats keep happening contact the police, there isn't really anything more you can do but stay out of trouble and don't contact this girl

oh my i'm sorry but "stanleys_2001"'s comment is just creepy...

Answer 13

If you have any proof of having that Girl is fraudulent gather them, and make a counter FIR on her in near police station.

Answer 14

you should have thought about this question why the girl accuse you rape her?

for what? money or other factor etc.

you had better change your place for your safe!

do not scared too much if you really do not do that.

good luck to you!

Answer 15

Just let it play out. If you feel at any point that you are in danger, involve the police.

Answer 16

In addition to Alice's suggestion of not deleting their comments or messages, I suggest you take a screencapture of those messages.